Wordless Wednesday: Some Final Winter Celebration Images

Epiphany ikebana.

Our first King Cake was a hit.

A final holiday arrangement.

Two happy but very tired people. 

The Famous Garden Lady (from Digging Deeper: a Series of Gardening Micro-Stories)

Stilisierte Blumen vor dekorativem Hintergrund, Stilleben, 1908
(Stylized flowers before decorative background, still life) by Egon Schiele

She said she wouldn't listen to the two women unless the word Clematis was pronounced Clem-uh-tis and not Cluh-MAAA-tis.

(Prescriptivist linguistics do not belong in gardening conversations thought the younger woman. Gardeners—by their very nature—should always be descriptivists, but she didn't want to tangle with the famous garden lady in the tall golden grass surrounding them.)

The older woman remarked that she didn't want to be confused by having too many Clem-uh-tis vines from too many pruning groups in her large garden because they were too difficult to remember. The famous garden lady became livid and mean. Her face caught fire quickly—matching the chaotic hair crowning her head. 

She barked at the two women, "I refuse to continue speaking to ANYONE who is so prejudiced about Clem-uh-tis vines and their pruning schedules. That is simply ridiculous and I don't have time for this." As she'd been speaking, she appeared to the younger woman to look like hundreds of tiny little firecrackers writhing on the pavement and then it was over. Much like the fireworks, she'd simply burned herself out.

The two women walked back to the gravel parking lot. Both were a bit shellshocked from the senseless explosion. The older woman crumbled when they reached the car. She'd just finished suffering the humiliation of cancer and had not expected another gardener to be so unkind.

"You don't treat people like that," she said.

"That was uncalled for," said the other woman. "You don't even treat plants like that."

To this day, both women continue to happily garden, and they still call the vines Cluh-MAAA-tis vines.

Wordless Wednesday: Self-Portrait of a Gardener in Winter

Rearranging houseplants. 

Playing with nature.

Ripping out the carpet in the office. Making houseplants happy.

Making more ikebana for my other blog: A Year of Ikebana.

Eldest cat Macavity as she surveys the rearranging.

Our largest cat (about 20lbs.) Maurice sleeping with the glow of the LED lit tree—probably dreaming of summer.

2012: The Year of Entering the Garden with my Grandma Virginia

A statue of St Francis in Grandma Virginia's backyard circa the early 1980s. I have no idea what happened to him, but he stood beside a little water feature that never worked during my lifetime. I imagine Grandma and Grandpa made it when they built their midcentury ranch house together, long before Grandpa Amato passed away on March 3, 1973.
(This photo and the next were both taken with my second camera, a Kodak Instamatic X15. My first was a Brownie—but it never worked.)

It's another day—a new day in the garden. As usual, I've not made any resolutions for the new year but that's simply because I annually resolve to change things during the autumn, after the harvest, and I did so again in 2011—in preparation for the winter.

My grandmother's death in September added the resolve that I needed in my life. It was a kind of closure too, but it opened a door for me, and added additional meaning and direction to my life. She was my guiding figure, the person who best reflected and understood my thoughts and feelings. She was my rock. If she'd not heard me, and responded to my metaphorical cries in the dark, I cannot imagine who I would be today. She was the beacon of light in what can only be called the fog of family. If I'd never known her, I would never have understood who I was.

Grandma's front lawn looking across her street near Lake Road at the Asti family farm circa the early 1980s. Back when I was a child there were still many small farms in Milwaukie owned by Italian-American truck farmers. Only one or two of these farms are left now, and there are a few not far from where we live in Portland, but my guess is that their days are numbered too. Maybe 2012 will be the year of the traditional produce farm though, and I would like that a lot. 

It was our last conversation though that changed me the most and for the last time. She was very weak, and couldn't talk much, but she wanted me to stay with her. She asked me to give her a tour of my garden in words, with pauses, describing the plants, and flowers. For 20 minutes she held on to my words and my hand, struggling to do so, following me through the garden, and at the end, she only had one question to ask. "Do you have a fountain?" She'd shot right to the one thing I wanted most last year for my garden, but so many other things happened and got in the way—mostly the disorganization caused by chronic illness.

Her ability to follow me, to hear me, to trust my narration, only showed how deeply she loved me and it was a powerful thing that moved me to the core that afternoon. She knew me because I'd already inherited so much from her. She'd read me like a book, but that's because so many of my thoughts had already been hers before I was even born. Knowing this was always very magical to me and it's why I sought her advice so often. She was an older slightly different version of me and we both knew it.

My Grandma Virginia at 18. 

After that conversation, I started to make changes. I resolved then to become the person she always knew, and to grow more in the ways she'd always encouraged me to grow. In some ways I now feel like the plant growing without its gardener, in a garden that is a bit overgrown since she passed, but I must trust myself more, both in the garden and in life, and as always, prune and train as needed.

I enter the garden in 2012 without my Grandma Virginia for the first time, but in a way, I enter as a new person, a new woman, one with more strength and purpose.

La vita é bella.
La vita é bella.
I will carry her with me always.

Happy New Year!